Important things with first anal
Anal is second genitals of both men and women. Our body is designed to enjoy anal sex. There are lots of nerve ends in the anus that leads to greater sexual pleasure. Although anal sex is not natural sex. So, it is bit painful for the beginners. If you are interested in anal sex or anal masturbation you should know How to anal. Anal penetration is not comfortable for beginners, like a vagina penetration. Anus or rectum muscles is very narrow and hard. The sudden penetration in the anal, cause you harm. Careful penetration surly leads to best anal play. But precaution should be must because anal muscles cannot be rebuild.
First anal sex is embarrassing but if it go right with a little preparation. It gives you best experience and make you curious for next time too. A successful anal sex gives a best orgasm. Men can reach to P-Spot orgasm. Anal sex is the only sex that allow men to penetration with their partner whether it is with sex toys, dildo, vibrators or partner's penis. Beginners in anal sex should remember this, you are not like pornographic. In porn, these men and women are expertise. Do not follow porn for anal sex and specially in the first time.
Preparation and massage
As we study, anal sex or anal play is painful for first timers. But it is possible to reduce the level of pain by some practice. Start with some foreplay. Massage or caressing the anal areas that make you ready for the anal sex. Massage activate the nerve ends of anal and make you feel comfortable and arouse your mood. This is not the only option. You can caressing the other parts too. Stimulate the nipple, vagina, penis, breasts, or any other body part where you can feel that way. Like way you allow your body to accept the penetration in anus by loose the anus muscles.
The other option to enhance the anal play is use lubricant. All we know, anus does not have own lubrication like vagina have. Anus does not allow lubrication in the act, you have to use it. Use best and suitable anal lubricant in anal play. You can choose anal play that has high viscosity in nature either water based lubricant or silicone based lubricants. Take some lubricant on both palm. Rub both palm together that heat up the lubricant. Now, apply warm lubricant on the anal area and your sex toys or penis. While penetration, if you needed more lubricant. You may use it. At the time penetration, go little by little. Allow little insertion and gradually increase the level of penetration. You can also caressing the stimulus part at the time of penetration.
Notes and techniques
Anal sex is common now, more than 40% peoples try it once. Some important notes and techniques you should before having anal sex.
Don't try anal sex if you don't want: Just because your partner want to penetrate the anal, don't go with this. Try anal sex whenever you are ready to do.
Using a condom is good option: Condom is not suitable for vaginal penetration. If you want a safe anal sex, should use condom.
Good quality lubricant: Choose a good lubricant for anal sex separately. You should use twice amount of lubricant compare to vaginal sex. Between thick and thinner lubricant. You should go with thicker lubricant whether water based lubricant or silicone based lubricant.
Relax your PC muscles: Relax your pubococcygeus (PC) muscles for easy penetration in anus.
If you despise it, never do it again: If you hate the anal penetration in first time, never perform it again. You hate it, that it.
Try think Dildos: If you first timer in anal sex, do not go with penis. Because glans of the penis is wide and can be painful. Instead use thin dildo for start.